My retired marine (infantry) and I have been going through a rough patch for a few months now - even since his ptsd reared it’s ugly head.
His go-to move when anything gets tough these days - demand a divorce and leave, cutting off all contact... then giving in, talking, coming home, being lovey dovey for a few days and back to the fights.
Our fights are always the same - he is insecure about everything. He has trust issues. Lots of word twisting, etc.
Last week he kicked me and our 18 month old daughter out for 2 days - would have been longer but I literally broke into the house and he ended up leaving. We settled stuff the next day.
Last night when I was sleeping, I woke up to a long text from him accusing me of cheating with his best friend. Not happening. Never would. We do talk, but my husband is aware of that. He informed me in his text that he was leaving (he was already done at this point) and wanted me out of the house when he returned this morning.
I don’t want to leave. It’s my home too. And our daughters - who is currently sick and needs to be home resting.
He is at a therapy appointment today, and I made sure his therapist knew what was going on before his appointment.
Praying his therapist can talk some sense into him. I’m so tired of the back and forth, of the accusations, etc. I love my husband more than life itself and it kills me that he wants to end our marriage over this.
His go-to move when anything gets tough these days - demand a divorce and leave, cutting off all contact... then giving in, talking, coming home, being lovey dovey for a few days and back to the fights.
Our fights are always the same - he is insecure about everything. He has trust issues. Lots of word twisting, etc.
Last week he kicked me and our 18 month old daughter out for 2 days - would have been longer but I literally broke into the house and he ended up leaving. We settled stuff the next day.
Last night when I was sleeping, I woke up to a long text from him accusing me of cheating with his best friend. Not happening. Never would. We do talk, but my husband is aware of that. He informed me in his text that he was leaving (he was already done at this point) and wanted me out of the house when he returned this morning.
I don’t want to leave. It’s my home too. And our daughters - who is currently sick and needs to be home resting.
He is at a therapy appointment today, and I made sure his therapist knew what was going on before his appointment.
Praying his therapist can talk some sense into him. I’m so tired of the back and forth, of the accusations, etc. I love my husband more than life itself and it kills me that he wants to end our marriage over this.