I’ve been with this man for over two years. First year of Covid he lived with me. Between that and CPTSD it was stressful and Christmas 2020 we temporarily split. Best thing ever as this led to me meeting a Counsellor who has straightened my brain and helped me get more control. It also meant that my relationship with this man was on a much better footing and things have been going sooooo well. UNTIL he gets offered a piece of work which will result in a fat bank balance and all of a sudden this man turns into the most arrogant short tempered self indulgent person I’ve ever met. I’ve stayed completely out of his way while he’s working thinking it was stress but no……last week he decided after staying over at mine he doesnt want to stay in the relationship. Says it’s not what he wants. Ok I get that and I respect it too. It’s agreed we’ll say that we wanted different things. Then I discover he has been telling his family that he can’t cope with my CPTSD and that it’s affecting him etc. It’s so untrue! I’m at a stage that I recognise triggers and back away. Just before Christmas we were out having fun in London, partying, dinners out, pubs etc. had a blast. Why oh why would you do it???? Now of course I’ve tail spinned into full on PTSD and struggling to gain control.