My husband has combat PTSD and a TBI. He is rated 60% with the VA. We have been together for 4 years, married 2 months. In the beginning I worked so hard to not have any needs and work around his issues, but of course that couldn’t last. He lets me down constantly. Breaks promises. Can’t be responsible. Let’s me do all the work while he watches TV, goes hunting, generally dicks around. I feel like I’m not even a priority in his life. I am so angry at him all the time and I don’t know how to stop. I feel like I’ve tried to bring up the issues I have in a reasonable way, but any time I try to begin any kind of serious conversation, he automatically assumes a posture like he’s getting ready to be physically attacked, and simply won’t talk to me. I don’t know how to handle this and it’s ruining our relationship. I feel like maybe this is a common enough issue someone might have some insight? He’s not going to change. I hope I can get some kind of new perspective that will stop me being angry all the time. TIA and happy new year!