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Message: <blockquote data-quote="coraxxx" data-source="post: 1738003" data-attributes="member: 50212">I’m sorry it’s so hard on you, [USER=50699]@BLH[/USER] . Sometimes people just aren’t okay to live with anyone at certain points of their lives. Mine? In the best of the universes, he’d take 5 years just devoted in healing and I praise the stars, not finding any woman in his path.Because people like this aren’t incapable of feeling love or attachment. But they’re quite impaired to do it with consistency. Too much noise, horrid memories, go to know what exactly he’s avoiding in you. It might be better that he avoids. It’s possible. Everything is on the plate, like a landmine and you find yourself waiting and slow in the way of the fast-paced beast of fear. Don’t stay there.It is hard because you’ve waited so long for something that never came. It’s perhaps one of the most painful things in life. But try to let it go, and to see how greener the grass is on the other side. There are plenty of men over there completely capable of love, who will tell you a cat is a cat, a dog is a dog, love is love and time is time. It’s quite flaw found in many men to be avoidant emotionally, but this varies heavily in terms of degrees. For what you’re saying, you’re looking for someone affectionate. Who’s affectionate with consistency. Take your time to heal, and you’ll see these people do exist.Gentle hugs, if you accept.</blockquote>