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Message: <blockquote data-quote="DentedCan 2.0" data-source="post: 1738026" data-attributes="member: 50699">Again, thank you kindly for your words.I know my best bet is to let go and realize this man is never going to love me the way I want to be loved. To be with him means sacrificing a lot of things that make me feel fulfilled and loved in a relationship. It’s hard to accept when you can see and feel that they genuinely want to feel what they aren’t. I have a hard time believing he can’t love when I know he loves his children, his family and friends. I think, who not me?I became triggering for him when I pushed him to talk to me, see me, respond to me... the more I pushed for it, the further he retreated. I felt obsessed with trying to fix it and did everything I could but it was the last thing he needed.Now I’m left picking up the pieces to a heart that feels shattered and confused. My whole sense of trust and belief in my gut and intuition is tainted. I truly felt he and I were something special and he felt for me what I did for him.</blockquote>