I need some help from those of you that are suffers and or caregivers. My wife vcc123 and i have been here for a few months. We dont get on as often. We have been going to therapy. She has decided that she needs to move to get a fresh surrounding to clear her head. The PTSD from an officer involved shooting she dispatched on has thrown her for a loop. The PTSD has brought old issues about her mothers death 15+ years ago. Her mothers and fathers divorce. Issues with an old boyfriend from 20 years ago that she has reconnected with. The boyfriend thing of course is what i get hung up on, espeacially with her wanting to move. I have told her I love her and I will support her in anyway I can as she works through the PTSD. I think im to worried about the boyfriend to much....I should be concentrating on supporting her. She says the boyfriend isnt a big issue, she says she love me. Have any of your spouses had to leave. To find where there head is at. I feel so bad for her. I wish I could fix it. Im affraid i might loose her. Which is scary. But in the long run its more important that she finds what she is looking for and is happy.