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Got to love small towns! I was out with a friend last night and turns out her sister has been seeing him too! We both called him out on it and he denyed our relationship. Kept saying think what you want to think. He got caught and trying to spin things around to be the victim. I feel so dumb I fell for the lies. He was busy, got mandated to work, fell asleep. I'm playing back our whole relationship wondering if everything was a lie. Lies about being "in a bad place and getting help. " Lies about caring for me, his ptsd, just everything. I know I will never know if anything was ever the truth or just lies.Wow...not cool...not fair. Get mad! Shake it off...PTSD or not, that is simply immature and hurtful. You are entitled to get really mad at him...spend the entire day having an imaginary conversation with him in which you tell him how he hurt you....use a lot of swearing ? and let it all out! It may sound silly...but it actually helps....and then move on...good guy deep down or not...he is not worth your time or tears...never see him again.
I'm not clingy and I would expect a man to stop living his life and spend all his time with me. I am very understanding and dont get jealous. Try to make sure there is some freedom within the relationship. Sounds great right? Yet I keep getting cheated on! Maybe I'm too understanding, laid back and accommodating?