Sex with my new (8 months) partner isn’t working for me. There’s always an adjustment period for me in a new relationship, but it’s never lasted more than a couple weeks. With this guy, it’s only getting worse. Sorry if this is tmi, but it’s relevant: his size is painful and it’s triggering every single time. If it weren’t for that, I don’t think we’d be having any issues. A big part of my recovery is supposed to be reclaiming sex, but I can’t do that with him, because we’re so limited in what we can do. Feels like a dealbreaker and I’m really down about it.