I was on this forum quite regularly about 11-13 years ago before I got married and moved to Zambia. Most of the time, I am OK. But then, suddenly I can be triggered and that shocks me. Case in point--Last Sunday, my husband, his daughter and our granddaughter were together in the car. A drunk man came up to my window. I was on full alert, but frozen. He kept on talking in a different language to me. The rest of the family understood him, but I didn't. Eventually, he grabbed me on my shoulder. I felt like it was burning. I couldn't move. I was frozen. I just said, "He grabbed me." Our daughter reached out of the car and slapped him hard. Then, my husband got out of the car and chased him away. I just feel vulnerable all over again. Thanks for listening