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Hi everyone,
I’m in a really bad state since December after one appointment with the psychologist I’m seeing
Almost lost my boyfriend there, almost didn’t make it through so I called the psych during vacations and she only answered my call on Monday after I texted her to reschedule.
I’ve got big problems with preggo women and she is preggo. I can ignore it during the appointment bc I can sit somewhere I don’t have to look at her, and keep going with the therapy.
The problem is last Saturday she called and said that if I needed/wanted, we could have two appointments during the week. She offered one appointment on Tuesday on zoom, added to the already scheduled appointment of Wednesday.
On Monday, in the afternoon, less than 24hrs before the first appointment ON ZOOM, a man calls me and tell me appointments of the week are cancelled. No emails, no messages from the psych, complete silence. I feel like a dog someone leaves on the road just because they have other problems and don’t really care about the animal anymore.
Over analyzing things, my mind tells me she only cancelled my appointments and not those of other clients. At this point, she is going to give me a reason like “I’ve been at the hospital” or “I didn’t feel good” but if she keeps working then you’d guess that she wouldn’t cancel appointments that way, that she’d find a way to do things like a psych is supposed to do.
No way being preggo prevents a psychologist from respecting clients and their needs.
Should I ask her about whether she plans on just keeping on cancelling appointments just because she cant handle things ?
Or should I ask her to give me another psychologist’s address and just leave her, knowing I opened myself and trusted her to be reliable and there for me as much as her schedule allows her to be ?
I’m in a really bad state since December after one appointment with the psychologist I’m seeing
Almost lost my boyfriend there, almost didn’t make it through so I called the psych during vacations and she only answered my call on Monday after I texted her to reschedule.
I’ve got big problems with preggo women and she is preggo. I can ignore it during the appointment bc I can sit somewhere I don’t have to look at her, and keep going with the therapy.
The problem is last Saturday she called and said that if I needed/wanted, we could have two appointments during the week. She offered one appointment on Tuesday on zoom, added to the already scheduled appointment of Wednesday.
On Monday, in the afternoon, less than 24hrs before the first appointment ON ZOOM, a man calls me and tell me appointments of the week are cancelled. No emails, no messages from the psych, complete silence. I feel like a dog someone leaves on the road just because they have other problems and don’t really care about the animal anymore.
Over analyzing things, my mind tells me she only cancelled my appointments and not those of other clients. At this point, she is going to give me a reason like “I’ve been at the hospital” or “I didn’t feel good” but if she keeps working then you’d guess that she wouldn’t cancel appointments that way, that she’d find a way to do things like a psych is supposed to do.
No way being preggo prevents a psychologist from respecting clients and their needs.
Should I ask her about whether she plans on just keeping on cancelling appointments just because she cant handle things ?
Or should I ask her to give me another psychologist’s address and just leave her, knowing I opened myself and trusted her to be reliable and there for me as much as her schedule allows her to be ?