I did not realize until recently, that my husband with PTSD ( who denies such) has a lazy lover syndrome that is related to his PTSD. I know there is is no documentation of all of this, but I do believe it exists. He was diagnosed with Passive Aggressive Disorrder and that Would explain some of it. Tonight during a conversation, I just realize that he sets his goals on being as lazy as he can. He has never lifted his body up, only collapsed on mine. He suffers premature ejaculation. Its the worst sex in the world. No woman would ever return for it...though I did because I was so use to being abused and he didnt do that. He is completely distant and.......Has anyone ever experienced this? I have had great sex with others. He is also a hoarder and lacks all intimacy. Also, very controlled and no spontinatiy. Thing is, make me feel underirable at best.