This is a courtesy notice to members that I have placed Marilyn_S back into moderation. As Marilyn has pointed out to me in a recent email, she believes my actions are secretive, which truly are not. All moderators know why she is in moderation, and due once again to her own actions through words to me once again judging my character, here is why she is moderated. Marilyn was banned for unsavoury behaviour initially, she breached privacy. Now Marilyn is moderated due to her recent behaviour of professing her love towards myself. Marilyn was fixated upon me before she was banned, Marilyn stated herself in her return message that she learnt she could no longer be fixated upon me nor expect one person to help her. Well, that went out the door very quickly as she is back to where she left off here. Marilyn has a personality disorder, most likely undiagnosed, and this is why her therapists have also likely pushed her away from them. She takes someone helping her beyond what it is, instead she becomes dependant upon that person to an extent of stalking, harassmental behaviour, etc etc... real fixated type behaviour. So Marilyn has begun this behaviour once again, though this time stepping far beyond and over any personal boundaries of this forums aim; that is to help people suffering PTSD and carers / friends of a PTSD sufferer. This forum is not equipped to handle personality disorders, instead this takes medication and professional psychiatric help. So, because Marilyn once again in her behaviour judges my character as the owner of this forum, now she will likely once again judge me as embarrassing her, which would be the exact contradiction to her recent email to myself outlining my character by not telling members why she is moderated. Because of her suspected personality disorder, Marilyn will remain moderated for most likely all time here until such time as her personality disorder is completely in control, and that isn't going to be any time soon. This is just another issue we must put up with upon the forum, and this is what editors do. Marilyn's behaviour must be moderated from members due to the personality disorder aspect. Personality disorders are serious business, they are not to be dismissed lightly. She is ill beyond the capacity that this forum can cater, thus her input here must be moderated to ensure it will not create unstable behaviour from those who are depressed or highly anxious at present. You can place a bunch of PTSD sufferers in one location and they will fight, though they are on even playing fields. Place a person with a personality disorder amongst this and the playing field is no longer level. Marilyn will use extremely manipulative behaviour in which to get inside of peoples boundaries, behaviour which is all negative though she simply will not know such at the time of doing it. Marilyn is ill, her behaviour far from appropriate upon this forum, and this is why she is back in moderation.