My mother in law lives 8 hours away, so I don't have to deal with her much. She's nice, but is incredibly passive aggressive and if she doesn't get her way will throw adult tantrums. Recently, she asked to move in with us, claiming my office as "her" bedroom. I run my own business so my office is the room of my house I'm most often in so that pissed me off. We have 2 other guest rooms she could have picked. We told her she couldn't move in with us, it just wouldn't work. She's also the type that likes to be alone with her two obnoxious purse dogs that don't get along with any dogs, not even our two large dogs. Now she's acting all hurt, and has been dropping comments about how her niece in Florida, who doesn't have a job, was going to let her move in with her. My mother in law has a nice condo, that even if she did sell it, she could buy a nice small house practically anywhere. I don't know where all this urgency for her to move is coming from. Plus she made my husband feel horrible by calling him crying 2 weeks ago to ask if he wanted her ashes when she dies or if she should arrange a pauper's grave. She's 60 and in good health. It makes no sense. Now, I'm pretty livid with both her and my husband, because he's been working 12-14 hours a day every day, and we just opened up our store yesterday. I have been super stressed and working to get everything done, and his mom decides she's coming to visit this weekend. Will be here later today. So I have had to clean my entire house, dog proof for her dogs, and setup the guestroom for her. Our dogs have to be locked up in a separate room which we never do because she won't do anything about her dogs, and one is really vicious. I know our chow mix would defend herself if she needed too, and my mother in law would come home with one less dog. She called me to ask what I had planned for her visit, and I said nothing because I will be at the store. So things are already off to a rough start. She's also super picky about everything, so I can't even cook meals while she's here, she will only go to chain restaurants like Applebees or Olive Garden which are gross and I can't eat processed foods like that or I get sick. So, needless to say, my anxiety is in full force, and I honestly just want to get in my car and just keep driving and come home after she leaves. This is going to be a rough weekend.