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My story - friend’s ex boyfriend took advantage

Discussion in 'Sexual Assault' started by Canadagirl, Jun 23, 2018.

  1. Canadagirl

    Canadagirl Guest

    7 years ago my friends ex boyfriend took advantage of me when I was totally wasted. He was sober. When it first happened I didn't have the words to describe what happened. I assumed because I was drunk and couldn't remember that I might have given my consent. I realize now that what he did was rape. I still can't say those words out loud but I can write them down. He harassed me with texts and calls for a few months afterwards. He eventually stopped when my boyfriend picked up my phone when he tried to call me. I've pushed back my feelings about all this for years now but I'm finally ready to deal with it all. I don't know what the point of my post is but just to share my story.
     
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  3. blackemerald1

    blackemerald1 I'm a VIP Premium Member

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    Hi @CanadaGirl - welcome.

    How are you intending on doing this^^^?
     
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  4. EveHarrington

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    It sounds like you could use the support of a therapist. :hug:
     
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  5. CanadaGirl

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    I finally told my family and they said they would help me get a therapist.
     
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    @CanadaGirl - great decision to discuss this with your family and I am so glad you are going to see a therapist. Your family sound like they are supportive of you.

    I hope it goes well for you.
     
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