7 years ago my friends ex boyfriend took advantage of me when I was totally wasted. He was sober. When it first happened I didn't have the words to describe what happened. I assumed because I was drunk and couldn't remember that I might have given my consent. I realize now that what he did was rape. I still can't say those words out loud but I can write them down. He harassed me with texts and calls for a few months afterwards. He eventually stopped when my boyfriend picked up my phone when he tried to call me. I've pushed back my feelings about all this for years now but I'm finally ready to deal with it all. I don't know what the point of my post is but just to share my story.