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mumstheword
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So, nah, eX is still a narcissist.
Son is finally, in the clinic. I've had good contact with him, though.
I'm so relieved that he is away from that soul-sucking, crazy-making man.
He will probably go back, he is very trauma bonded with his dad, but we are developing a healing and nurturing connection.
He is so desperate for reassurance. It's made him open to me, in a way he's never been before.
I am going to get him private health cover to pay for some better private inpatients care.
He is the last of my children to come back to a trusting, nurturing relationship with me, after they were poisoned against me when I had to leave to save my life and sanity.
They missed out on my love and support for years. We are still working through the grief of that time, as well as the traumatic life from day dot.
Narcissistic abuse cannot be understood by anybody who hasn't experienced it and it's very lonely, as you have your sanity systematically eroded and undermined. ;Slow frog cooking" style.
Often, everybody else thinks that person is great. They are masters at, very subtly and covertly destroying your sense of realty and self.
Plus, so often, it's a form of Stockholm syndrome and you will make excuses for them and try even harder to win their love and to protect them from the natural consequences of their deeply skewered and responsibility avoidant projection and you will take responsibility for all that they avoid responsibility for.
So, my.kid has a long way to go, he is still deeply mired in.his dad's worldview and desperate for evidence of his love, but, at least, he is drawing on me and acknowledges the real love and support that I give him.
Son is finally, in the clinic. I've had good contact with him, though.
I'm so relieved that he is away from that soul-sucking, crazy-making man.
He will probably go back, he is very trauma bonded with his dad, but we are developing a healing and nurturing connection.
He is so desperate for reassurance. It's made him open to me, in a way he's never been before.
I am going to get him private health cover to pay for some better private inpatients care.
He is the last of my children to come back to a trusting, nurturing relationship with me, after they were poisoned against me when I had to leave to save my life and sanity.
They missed out on my love and support for years. We are still working through the grief of that time, as well as the traumatic life from day dot.
Narcissistic abuse cannot be understood by anybody who hasn't experienced it and it's very lonely, as you have your sanity systematically eroded and undermined. ;Slow frog cooking" style.
Often, everybody else thinks that person is great. They are masters at, very subtly and covertly destroying your sense of realty and self.
Plus, so often, it's a form of Stockholm syndrome and you will make excuses for them and try even harder to win their love and to protect them from the natural consequences of their deeply skewered and responsibility avoidant projection and you will take responsibility for all that they avoid responsibility for.
So, my.kid has a long way to go, he is still deeply mired in.his dad's worldview and desperate for evidence of his love, but, at least, he is drawing on me and acknowledges the real love and support that I give him.