Its been a real rocky section of the road this week a hard learning curve. I made friends with a colleague in work based on an assumption but in the end it turned out was quite an immature person who tried to lie to me when we had a conflict this week and was trying to get in to my pants even though I had made it clear I was not available in that way. Ultimately I have decided to take responsibility as I was the one who put this person on a pedestal and then pushed them of it when they did not turn out to be what I assumed. I have learned my life is ruled by assumptions I think its a control thing..a bit like if everything is how I assume i would like it to be I am some how in control of everything. I think letting go of assumptions is going to be an on going process