Sufferer New here and looking for support

JulieG

New Here
I am new here and referred by a friend. My narcissist husband has finally gone to far and I feel shattered and broken. I am frozen in place and physically ill at the moment. He knows ALL my traumas and triggers and is actively enjoying watching me suffer. I has a severe medical event that had me screaming to call 911 and he refused! He went back to bed. I luckily made it until morning and his nurse arrived in the morning and got me to the hospital. Several days later it happened again ..same result..refused to call for help. He grudgingly drove me(not supposed to drive due to his health) and almost ran off the road. I had a small stroke. Trying to get well as my brother suddenly passed the same day as my 1st event and I need to get to my sister. My husband is a disabled veteran with significant issues and feels that it's my sole duty to take care of him ..even if it costs me my life. I'm done..just done and can't even feed myself let alone him. I don't know what to do...im trapped and traumatized. Gladly accept any and all tips on how to hang on. Thanks for listening
 

AngelKeeperJ

Sponsor
Welcome to the site! You’ve been through a lot for sure…and I respect you highly for taking care of your husband!

There’s a ton of info here that I hope will help you. Take things at your own speed and staff is quick and good at answering questions. I’ve been a member 11 years now. You can interact as much or as little as you are able.

Please be kind to yourself, you deserve that! I struggle with that myself as a caretaker. I take care of my mom now that dad is gone…I got to take care of him too, before he died. She’s 88. Even though it’s been hard, I am glad I can be here to keep her from going into a faciity.

Blessings of peace and clarity sent to you!
AKJ
 

caroline_13

Confident
I am new here and referred by a friend. My narcissist husband has finally gone to far and I feel shattered and broken. I am frozen in place and physically ill at the moment. He knows ALL my traumas and triggers and is actively enjoying watching me suffer. I has a severe medical event that had me screaming to call 911 and he refused! He went back to bed. I luckily made it until morning and his nurse arrived in the morning and got me to the hospital. Several days later it happened again ..same result..refused to call for help. He grudgingly drove me(not supposed to drive due to his health) and almost ran off the road. I had a small stroke. Trying to get well as my brother suddenly passed the same day as my 1st event and I need to get to my sister. My husband is a disabled veteran with significant issues and feels that it's my sole duty to take care of him ..even if it costs me my life. I'm done..just done and can't even feed myself let alone him. I don't know what to do...im trapped and traumatized. Gladly accept any and all tips on how to hang on. Thanks for listening
Hi,

I hope you are okay.

Are you? lmk.
 
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