abbynormal1929
Confident
Hello everyone,
So there's been an ongoing saga I've been posting about on this site regarding my emotionally abusive wife, and everyone has been very supportive.
Last week at my son's 18 month check up, some questions were raised about his communication skills not developing the way they should. My stepdaughter (son's half sister) is pretty low functioning on the autistic spectrum. Now My son's primary care office wants to have him evaluated for Early Intervention services, which I am all for, as soon as possible.
Ever since the appointment my wife has completely shut down. We barely get to speak as it is cause of our work schedules. We both have this weekend off, and she has been going between telling me I hate her cause of her "crappy genetics", and telling me every little thing I'm doing wrong with everything. Worst of all for me is that our son hasn't even been evaluated yet and she seems sure that he's going to have autism, and it's going to be just the same as my stepdaughter who has some aggressive tendencies. My wife had been doing better receiving support from some new sources but since the appointment it's all back to gaslighting, and just telling me I'm doing everything wrong, and telling me I hate her and blame her for my stepdaughter and possibly son having autism. It always seemed like everything I do was under a microscope with her, but now it seems like everything my son does is under a microscope too. I don't know if I can parent the way I want to if she's always going to be looking for there to be problems with me and our son. I don't know, I think I'm rambling now. I want to leave, and I think I'm getting closer and closer to just doing it. Any way, thank y'all
So there's been an ongoing saga I've been posting about on this site regarding my emotionally abusive wife, and everyone has been very supportive.
Last week at my son's 18 month check up, some questions were raised about his communication skills not developing the way they should. My stepdaughter (son's half sister) is pretty low functioning on the autistic spectrum. Now My son's primary care office wants to have him evaluated for Early Intervention services, which I am all for, as soon as possible.
Ever since the appointment my wife has completely shut down. We barely get to speak as it is cause of our work schedules. We both have this weekend off, and she has been going between telling me I hate her cause of her "crappy genetics", and telling me every little thing I'm doing wrong with everything. Worst of all for me is that our son hasn't even been evaluated yet and she seems sure that he's going to have autism, and it's going to be just the same as my stepdaughter who has some aggressive tendencies. My wife had been doing better receiving support from some new sources but since the appointment it's all back to gaslighting, and just telling me I'm doing everything wrong, and telling me I hate her and blame her for my stepdaughter and possibly son having autism. It always seemed like everything I do was under a microscope with her, but now it seems like everything my son does is under a microscope too. I don't know if I can parent the way I want to if she's always going to be looking for there to be problems with me and our son. I don't know, I think I'm rambling now. I want to leave, and I think I'm getting closer and closer to just doing it. Any way, thank y'all