Interesting thread ... and timely, since I'm going thorugh a resurgence of nightmares and night terrors, since a sibling OD'ed on alcohol and Percocet (and survived) 2.5 weeks ago. I take Imovane for a chronic insomnia disorder ... the only time I can seem to fall asleep naturally is during the day.
There seems to be something about the nature of falling asleep that jars a mind long attuned to trauma -- in my own situation, night + sleep = ALARM!
There was a lovely period, right after I got together with my husband; for our first four years I slept like a baby, all snuggled in with him. Then I took a new job which was insanely stressful and which ran me ragged. Then there were next-door neighbours from hell for 2.5 years -- violent, brutal, drug-abusing, etc. Oh goodie. Sleep shot to hell; body and brain on constant alert. Exhausting. It all moved me into a resurgence of PTSD which I'm about to enter hospital for ... I understand there are drugs available which can suppress dream activity -- I don't want that, as I believe dreams are important communiqués from parts of the mind we can't access during ordinary waking consciousness. I figure that the horrific dreams (often about being paralyzed, unable to call out -- utterly helpless) will resolve themselves as I gain back strength and some semblance of balance :smile:
What helps me? ... Getting of the computer at a reasonable hour ... hot chai or milk w/ honey ... a bath with soothing oils like melissa or pine ... lovemaking ... cuddling ... reading a soothing/inspirational book ... gentle stretching/yoga in the evening.
I've had sleep disorders all my life, and suspect that they may have arisen because I spent the first three months of my life in a NICU (neonatal intensive care unit) -- two months premature. There's probably no way my infant brain could set down normal patterns for sleep, given that environment. Later abuse which sometimes came down on me in the middle of the night sure didn't help.
I no longer fight insomnia or despair over it. Fortunately I am off work right now on a long-term disability claim, and may never go back to work; I can sleep when my body needs to. How I (hopefully) get back to a more natural sleep cycle remains to be determined during my hospital stay. My first order of work there will to regulate as best I can my sleep cycle and appetite ...
Best of luck to you, 4sided...
Roo