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No end in sight

Discussion in 'Military & Emergency Services' started by Jag65, Nov 27, 2017.

  1. Jag65

    Jag65 New Member

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    Hello All,

    I am a 20+ year veteran police officer. My last assignment was the Commander of both the Operations and Support divisions. I left the job just over a year ago. I couldn’t do it anymore. I couldn’t handle the panic attacks, nightmares,anxiety attacks and many more issues any longer. In the end I couldn’t even responded to officers calls for help. That’s when I realized I had to go.

    I was in denial for years and hide everything. Not only was my work suffering so was my family life. I put the job before my family and it has taken a hudge toll on my relationship with my wife and kids. Fortunately I have a wonderful wife who did not give up on me.

    I have been in weekly therapy for over a year now and have been diagnosed with PTSD and depression. My therapist and I have identified over 20 traumatic events of both personal (one event) and the rest work traumas,

    I am on several meds that have helped reduce my symptoms. Frequently, my symptoms flare but are not as intense as before. They sill leave me out of touch with reality.

    I am trying towork through all of this but there does not seem to be a light at the end of the tunnel. I feel so overwhelmed, trying to repair the damage I have caused myself and the people closest to me.

    I am so stressed and can’t even think about going back to work. I was able to medically retire but I am fighting the cause. They believe my PTSD is not related to the job. I have also applied for Social Security. It’s been 9 months, I have done their testing and still no answer.

    Can anyone give me an idea of how long this will last? I know it is different for everyone just trying to get a ballpark. Also have any of you been able to go back to work after leaving and receiving disability.

    I would like to go back to work but am not sure I could. Any advise or personal testimonials would be greatly appreciated.
     
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  3. EveHarrington

    EveHarrington _______ in progress. Premium Member

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    Ongoing trauma/multiple traumas can take years, decades, or a lifetime to heal from.

    Going back to work may be a possibility at one point, but I’d strongly advise going back into the same job as you’ll likely deal with triggers and symptom flare ups.
     
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  4. brokenEMT

    brokenEMT Well-Known Member

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    I'm a 15 year paramedic, and I did go back to work on car, in a temporary position in a different division. My traumas are work related, but not involving patient care or patients, so I knew I could still do the job, I just couldn't return to the same division where the traumas occurred. I still had issues in the other division, and clearly needed therapy, but I could function and do my job, until I was physically injured.

    I don't know the sources of your ptsd, maybe you could return to law enforcement in a different capacity? different department?

    welcome to the forum!
     
  5. Freida

    Freida Been There, Done That, Lived to Tell the Story Premium Member

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    Dispatch here -- I've got PTSD from my military days, but everyone agrees the worst possible job I could have gotten into after I got out was 911 so that just added to it. I was there for my 20, did the counseling thing for about a year while I was still working until it became problematic trying to juggle the two. I finally went out on medical leave and have been out 4 months. I was able to get long term disability from work

    It took the first 3 months to get all the disability crap together and finally be able to take a breath and realize how much damage the career was doing to my life, my health and my family. Here's what I'm learning... I have to get better first before I can fix anything else in my life. Until I'm calm and reasonable (as much as a dispatcher can be!) it doesn't do me any good to try to fix the "outer" stuff. But -- as I get better the rest starts to fall into place, so I don't have to work as hard at the repair aspect.

    How long does it take? As long as it takes. But my T did ask me once --"how long did it take you to get to this point?" When I said 25 years she laughed and told me to stop asking her for a timeline.

    One thing I did that was really helpful was to keep a journal of how I was feeling. Now I can go back and look -- how was I six months ago? A year ago? 3 years? Often I don't see the improvement until I look back at what I wrote. Then I have a valid comparison

    Hope that helps!
     
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