This is definitely very true about accelerated closeness!!! Even by my own standards. Re-adjustment is not a bad thing. It's just all so topsy turvy & it's started to mess with my own perspective. Thank you for this important reminder. I don't want to get lost in someone else's world either.Finding it hard to accept the behavior isn't a wrong reason...if anything, it could be that you've accelerated into too much closeness, too fast. Bottom line: your feelings count, and you get to act on them. Trying to tolerate being put on the back burner because it's justified by his disorder...that's putting his needs before your own, and it's just as damaging to a relationship as semi-ghosting is.