Such wisdom, and it seems so obvious with light of day! I wish it were so easy to see it in the moment!! Would make life quite a bit easier, wouldn't it??Pfft.
You can understand and STILL be angry. And hurt. And insulted. And everything else.
Understanding why something is happening? Doesn’t stop it from happening. Nor make it not hurt, or all better, or okay in any way.
Fantastic point. I do find myself weirdly more angry this morning than I expected. I'm angry because I absolutely KNOW this whole situation last night was from his ptsd. And it pisses me off. I feel like it would weirdly be easier if he was just an asshole by choice.there are things in life which the more i understand them, the more angry i get, ESPECIALLY when i have no control over the facts which are making me angry.
anger channeling time. . .
great time to demolish that nasty old couch i've wanted to lose forever.
I feel like it would weirdly be easier if he was just an asshole by choice.