Sanctuary
Confident
My cat died after 16 years, on the 19th January. 2018.
She was my soul mate, my baby the only thing I had and I'm devasted.
Please has anyone got any ideas on how to deal with this loss?
I am been told GET OVER IT! - that just broke my heart.
I miss her so much and am going into a deep depression and crying.
She had such a beautiful soul, never bite, never, scratched and I would hold her in my arms and cuddle her.
She peed on everything but I still loved her like my only own child.
I'm considering getting a rescue cat but am concerned I will compare her to my BUBBA as I'm still grieving for her.
I still feel her around me sometimes.
I've brought books to help, planted a bleeding heart plant in her name, and have a celebration of a cat life book, I've written in and want to add pictures of her
What did you do to help yourself when your pet died?
Any ideas, words of wisdom please tell me.
I'm completely alone in this as no one understands the depth of pain I feel.
I've got EMDR coming up soon and feel I have nothing to look forward too.
Life feels like a burden when it should be considered a gift.
She was my soul mate, my baby the only thing I had and I'm devasted.
Please has anyone got any ideas on how to deal with this loss?
I am been told GET OVER IT! - that just broke my heart.
I miss her so much and am going into a deep depression and crying.
She had such a beautiful soul, never bite, never, scratched and I would hold her in my arms and cuddle her.
She peed on everything but I still loved her like my only own child.
I'm considering getting a rescue cat but am concerned I will compare her to my BUBBA as I'm still grieving for her.
I still feel her around me sometimes.
I've brought books to help, planted a bleeding heart plant in her name, and have a celebration of a cat life book, I've written in and want to add pictures of her
What did you do to help yourself when your pet died?
Any ideas, words of wisdom please tell me.
I'm completely alone in this as no one understands the depth of pain I feel.
I've got EMDR coming up soon and feel I have nothing to look forward too.
Life feels like a burden when it should be considered a gift.