Feeling incredibly depressed my girlfriend or I guess now ex has ghosted me for 6 weeks now. The last things we said to each other was I love you. I texted her a few times and never heard anything. The only thing remotely close was she view my Facebook story.
It's ɓeen hard 4 months since she began to pull away and become distant. She told me that she began to feel triggered around me and that she needed space and wanted sex off the table. Things never got better even though we agreed to work on being more intimate. After some time of no work I asked her about her thoughts on starting it. All she could tell me is her sub conscious kept putting more space between us.
As the weeks wore on and we saw less of each other. I was becoming a very small part of her life she was planning trips and activities completely without me. I still tried to support her anyway I could and she just kept insisting I would be the same as her exs and her abusers. I never once did that to her. The closest I got to pushing her boundaries was asking her to communicate the problem after her being distant for weeks and only telling me "theirs a problem but I don't want to talk about it"
I feel very cheated by life I guess and frustrated with her. I love her and only want what is best for her.
I also feel like I was walking on eggshells this whole relationship and thier was no win for me since I'm just human and don't always act perfectly and have my own feelings.
I'm frustrated because she said I'm amazing and didn't want to lose me but still pulled away and ghosted me.
It's ɓeen hard 4 months since she began to pull away and become distant. She told me that she began to feel triggered around me and that she needed space and wanted sex off the table. Things never got better even though we agreed to work on being more intimate. After some time of no work I asked her about her thoughts on starting it. All she could tell me is her sub conscious kept putting more space between us.
As the weeks wore on and we saw less of each other. I was becoming a very small part of her life she was planning trips and activities completely without me. I still tried to support her anyway I could and she just kept insisting I would be the same as her exs and her abusers. I never once did that to her. The closest I got to pushing her boundaries was asking her to communicate the problem after her being distant for weeks and only telling me "theirs a problem but I don't want to talk about it"
I feel very cheated by life I guess and frustrated with her. I love her and only want what is best for her.
I also feel like I was walking on eggshells this whole relationship and thier was no win for me since I'm just human and don't always act perfectly and have my own feelings.
I'm frustrated because she said I'm amazing and didn't want to lose me but still pulled away and ghosted me.