Aloha everyone, I'm new here. I'm hoping to get some kind of advice or comfort for my situation.
My husband is military and was involved in a terrorist attack almost 7 years ago. at that point we had been married for less then a year. he was diagnosed with PTSD but isn't on any medication or in any therapy....he of course thinks hes fine, but hes not fine. over the past 7 years Ive dealt with his rages and his flash backs, I've picked him off bathroom floors, held him while hes shook uncontrollably, wiped his tears and reassured him that I'm always here for him. he left for schooling a month ago and writes me saying that he doesn't want to be with me anymore....of course this was a stab in the heart. he says that its nothing I've done wrong its just something he has to do. he says he feels detached and feels that he doesn't belong. hes lonely cause he has no friends (not because hes a bad guy, but because any friends he did have, hes pushed away)
I love this man very much, we have 4 children together and many great memories. I'm not ready to walk away from this marriage....I'm mad as hell that i wasn't given an option. Its like a kick in the teeth because i've spent 99% of our marriage making sure hes ok. I just feel so out of control right now....i don't know what my next step should be.......help
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My husband is military and was involved in a terrorist attack almost 7 years ago. at that point we had been married for less then a year. he was diagnosed with PTSD but isn't on any medication or in any therapy....he of course thinks hes fine, but hes not fine. over the past 7 years Ive dealt with his rages and his flash backs, I've picked him off bathroom floors, held him while hes shook uncontrollably, wiped his tears and reassured him that I'm always here for him. he left for schooling a month ago and writes me saying that he doesn't want to be with me anymore....of course this was a stab in the heart. he says that its nothing I've done wrong its just something he has to do. he says he feels detached and feels that he doesn't belong. hes lonely cause he has no friends (not because hes a bad guy, but because any friends he did have, hes pushed away)
I love this man very much, we have 4 children together and many great memories. I'm not ready to walk away from this marriage....I'm mad as hell that i wasn't given an option. Its like a kick in the teeth because i've spent 99% of our marriage making sure hes ok. I just feel so out of control right now....i don't know what my next step should be.......help
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=84285763