Strugglingsaks
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I had my wisdom teeth taken out a few years ago and now I have another scheduled wisdom tooth extraction in a few days. My S/O is taking it as a joke. I have been telling them for a while about how it is extremely triggering for me and to be ready if I’m very unwell or stuck in bed for a while. They responded with “it’s just a tooth pull it’s not like you’re having major back surgery” when I try to discuss with them they don’t care or listen and idk what to do. I’m very scared because I have alot of past trauma and a lot of it relates to my mouth so I have to be ready for whatever reaction I may have and they should care and be aware of it too but they don’t seem to give a crap and it’s so hurtful… has anyone experienced this? If yes, what did you do or what do you advise I do?