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Smear - Any advice to get me through it please?
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<blockquote data-quote="Soscaredpleasehelp" data-source="post: 1771437"><p>Thanks so much to both of you for your advice. My T mentioned taking someone with me but to be honest that feels so much worse. I’m not sure why - something to do with not wanting anyone to know about it I think.</p><p></p><p>I am in England and I looked at GUM clinics - is that what you mean Movingforward? Can I ask where you found the clinic? </p><p></p><p>I think I might try and communicate as much of how I’d like it to be as possible. I think the most important part for me is that she stops if I ask her to or if I can’t talk. It just feels excruciating to discuss with her and I’m worried she’ll roll her eyes and think I’m making a fuss.</p><p></p><p>My T has offered texting support before/after but it’s on Christmas Eve so I feel a little harsh taking him up on that one! Maybe I’ll ask a friend.</p><p></p><p>When you say positions - is there any choice in this? On my back doesn’t feel great.</p><p></p><p>Thanks so much both of you for your replies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Soscaredpleasehelp, post: 1771437"] Thanks so much to both of you for your advice. My T mentioned taking someone with me but to be honest that feels so much worse. I’m not sure why - something to do with not wanting anyone to know about it I think. I am in England and I looked at GUM clinics - is that what you mean Movingforward? Can I ask where you found the clinic? I think I might try and communicate as much of how I’d like it to be as possible. I think the most important part for me is that she stops if I ask her to or if I can’t talk. It just feels excruciating to discuss with her and I’m worried she’ll roll her eyes and think I’m making a fuss. My T has offered texting support before/after but it’s on Christmas Eve so I feel a little harsh taking him up on that one! Maybe I’ll ask a friend. When you say positions - is there any choice in this? On my back doesn’t feel great. Thanks so much both of you for your replies. [/QUOTE]
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