Hello, sorry for my silence... I had my first EMDR session on Thursday. An amazing result: after months of dreaming about past relationships, I had a dream about my partner last night. Finally!! Having to mourn about somebody who is still alive may be even more difficult... and I'm learning to say goodbye forever to my mom, whom I have called 'mother', and at a certain moment near teenagehood, I skipped the 'm' and called her 'other'. She didn't even mention that ever. I think she kind of agreed with that. Is it normal to feel tired after EMDR? Tired but also relaxed? ;-) I guess it would be abnormal not to be a bit tired, yes?