I don't get it. I really don't. Why is it when you love someone they just don't get it? I work in healthcare and I usually work nights. My boyfriend, soon to be husband seems to think the fact that I don't sleep at night on my days off is due to my PTSD. Really? I'm made to feel as though it's my fault this is occurring. He likes to blame everything he feels is wrong in our relationship on my PTSD. What a convenient excuse to use; for him. I have explained to him ad nauseam that I do have hypervigilance and sometimes it does intrude into our relationship. It's something that I've been working on for years to reduce the anxiety and stress I feel about it. He doesn't make it any better by constantly bringing it up. If anyone has any tips or suggestions on this topic, please let me know. Thanx so much for listening to me.