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The Trauma of past relationships haunt me.
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<blockquote data-quote="TruthSeeker" data-source="post: 1710250" data-attributes="member: 47993"><p>Cocaine addiction can change the brain significantly, so you said the right thing-you need stability. It looks like his mother may take precedence over another woman in his life-that’s a real concern. </p><p></p><p>If you Reconsider getting together after a year or two and he’s clean-(he needs his space as much as you do), attending therapy and weekly meetings-kicking and dealing w addiction takes a lot of effort and energy, as do dealing w the why of that kind of self destructive behavior. I’m not sure he could ever promise to be the kind of guy whom you know you could always trust and be there for you. That hasn’t happened so far. You deserve better-maybe you can view him as just training wheels for a more reliable partner?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TruthSeeker, post: 1710250, member: 47993"] Cocaine addiction can change the brain significantly, so you said the right thing-you need stability. It looks like his mother may take precedence over another woman in his life-that’s a real concern. If you Reconsider getting together after a year or two and he’s clean-(he needs his space as much as you do), attending therapy and weekly meetings-kicking and dealing w addiction takes a lot of effort and energy, as do dealing w the why of that kind of self destructive behavior. I’m not sure he could ever promise to be the kind of guy whom you know you could always trust and be there for you. That hasn’t happened so far. You deserve better-maybe you can view him as just training wheels for a more reliable partner? [/QUOTE]
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