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Message: <blockquote data-quote="grit" data-source="post: 1773159" data-attributes="member: 46894">I never use this term but probably think of it though...or maybe act as ifI take my dismissive positively like cannot be bothered by this or that but I can see it covering my eyes!Nothing to add here - my cousin Vinnie!I am surprised to resonate with this but maybe I  put this under my dismissive when in dismissive mode!I would say I probably "minimize" my present issues (though again I cannot say honestly they are huge) but in comparison (and this could be the problem why am I comparing to the past so much - pssst traummamaa) and that may cause me minimizing unconsciously and so unnecessary.This one is interesting to me again - words do have power! I do get stuck on words, phrases sometimes and lose my mind!These make really sense to me. Thanks [USER=27208]@Friday[/USER].I am not so much gullible (my tiny defense here) but but only when I am triggered and then recover, it feels like what triggered me was not as big deal as what was triggered which could have been tsunami for a child.I feel like I am still a child living in a adult body and so often my little body is more important than my adult comrade.I hope this is another awakening.Thank you so much.</blockquote>