ColinKevin
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Can your body twitch and spasm after EMDR? If so, is this a memory or something else?
Trauma dispelling due to therapy
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Dr. Catalyst
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I'm not a medical doctor, but I can provide some general information based on my expertise. It's possible to experience physical sensations, including twitches and spasms, after EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). These sensations may arise during or after EMDR therapy sessions, and they can be related to the processing of traumatic memories.
EMDR involves bilateral stimulation, such as eye movements, which helps activate both sides of the brain to facilitate the processing of traumatic memories. It's not uncommon to experience physical sensations, like twitching or spasming, as the body responds to the activation of the trauma-related neural networks. These sensations might be indicative of the nervous system releasing tension or energy related to the traumatic memory.
However, it's important to consult with your therapist or healthcare provider to discuss your specific symptoms and concerns. They can provide more accurate guidance based on your individual situation. It's essential to have a comprehensive evaluation to rule out any other potential medical or neurological causes for your symptoms.
If you're experiencing distress or if the symptoms are interfering with your daily functioning, it's crucial to reach out to your therapist or a medical professional for further evaluation and guidance.
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ColinKevin
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It's not me I am a supporter. My surviver is not worried by then at all as the therapist warned them this might happen. But the release of tension sounds really plausible.
Dr. Catalyst
Artificial Intelligence
Thank you for clarifying that you are a supporter for a survivor going through EMDR therapy. It's great to hear that the therapist has prepared the survivor for the possibility of physical sensations during or after EMDR sessions.
The release of tension is indeed a plausible explanation for the twitches and spasms that can occur. EMDR is designed to help process traumatic memories, which can be stored in the body as well as in the mind. As the survivor engages in the therapy and begins to work through these memories, it's not uncommon for the body to respond with physical sensations.
It's important to remember that everyone's experience with EMDR is unique, and people may have different physical responses. If the survivor is not worried by these sensations and is comfortable with their therapist's guidance, it's generally a positive sign that they are working through their trauma in a healthy way. However, it's always a good idea to maintain open communication with the survivor and their therapist to ensure that they are receiving the support they need throughout the process.
As a supporter, you can continue to provide reassurance and understanding to the survivor. It might also be helpful to encourage them to communicate any concerns or new sensations to their therapist, as they are best equipped to address any specific questions or provide further guidance.
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ColinKevin
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Most recommended books for trauma healing please
Dr. Catalyst
Artificial Intelligence
While I can't directly provide specific book recommendations, I can suggest some popular and highly regarded resources on trauma healing that you or the survivor may find helpful. Please note that it's important to choose resources that align with the survivor's individual needs and preferences. Here are a few widely recognized books on trauma:
1. "The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma" by Bessel van der Kolk
2. "Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving" by Pete Walker
3. "Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma" by Peter A. Levine
4. "Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror" by Judith Herman
5. "Healing Trauma: A Pioneering Program for Restoring the Wisdom of Your Body" by Peter A. Levine and Ann Frederick
6. "The PTSD Workbook: Simple, Effective Techniques for Overcoming Traumatic Stress Symptoms" by Mary Beth Williams and Soili Poijula
Remember, these are only suggestions, and it's important to review the content and approach of each book to determine if it aligns with the survivor's needs and therapy goals. Additionally, you can consider seeking recommendations from the survivor's therapist or mental health professionals who are familiar with their specific situation.
If you or the survivor would like more book recommendations, I suggest conducting an internet search using the titles provided to explore additional resources that might be relevant to their unique needs and interests.
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ColinKevin
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Thank you. They have most of these and now report a very clear understanding of the unhelpfulness of the feelings of guilt they have been carrying around within their CPTSD. This is what they are working on right now
Dr. Catalyst
Artificial Intelligence
That's great to hear that the survivor already has access to some of these resources and is gaining a clear understanding of the unhelpfulness of feelings of guilt associated with their CPTSD. Working on this aspect can be a significant step in the healing process.
Guilt is a common and complex emotion experienced by many trauma survivors. It's important for the survivor to recognize that feelings of guilt are often misplaced and not reflective of their true responsibility for the traumatic experiences they have endured. These feelings can be deeply ingrained and challenging to overcome, but with continued therapy and self-reflection, it is possible to shift the perspective and develop a healthier understanding of their experiences.
Encourage the survivor to continue exploring this topic within their therapy sessions, as their therapist will be able to guide them through this process and provide the necessary support. It may be helpful for them to examine the origins of the guilt, challenge negative beliefs, and work towards self-compassion and self-forgiveness.
Remind the survivor to be patient and gentle with themselves during this healing journey. It can take time to unravel and reframe deeply ingrained emotions and beliefs. Encourage them to reach out for support when needed, whether it's from their therapist, a support group, or trusted individuals in their life.
If there are any other specific aspects of their healing journey that they would like guidance or support with, feel free to let me know, and I'll do my best to assist.
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ColinKevin
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They are feeling utterly exhausted by processing whatever comes up in therapy, reframing it and then just coping with life in general. I would imagine this is quite common. We try to make as few demands on them as possible.
Dr. Catalyst
Artificial Intelligence
Feeling exhausted during the therapeutic process is indeed quite common, especially when working through complex trauma. The process of processing emotions, reframing beliefs, and coping with daily life can be mentally and emotionally draining.
It's important for the survivor to prioritize self-care and give themselves permission to take breaks when needed. Encourage them to communicate their exhaustion with their therapist, as they may be able to provide additional support or make adjustments to the therapy process to help manage the fatigue.
Here are a few suggestions they might find helpful:
1. Practice self-compassion: Remind the survivor to be kind and understanding towards themselves. Acknowledge that healing from trauma is a challenging and courageous journey, and it's normal to feel tired and overwhelmed at times.
2. Set realistic expectations: Encourage the survivor to set realistic expectations for themselves, both in therapy and in daily life. It can be helpful to break tasks into smaller, manageable steps and celebrate small victories along the way.
3. Use coping strategies: Encourage the survivor to utilize healthy coping strategies outside of therapy to help manage stress and exhaustion. This could include activities like exercise, spending time in nature, journaling, engaging in hobbies, or practicing relaxation techniques such as deep breathing or meditation.
4. Reach out for support: Encourage the survivor to reach out for support from trusted friends, family members, or support groups who can provide a listening ear, understanding, and validation. Connecting with others who have had similar experiences can also be helpful.
5. Prioritize self-care: Support the survivor in prioritizing self-care activities that promote rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation. This may include getting enough sleep, eating nourishing foods, engaging in activities they enjoy, and creating a routine that allows for breaks and self-reflection.
Remember, healing takes time, and it's essential for the survivor to listen to their own needs and give themselves permission to rest and recharge when necessary. If they continue to feel overwhelmed or exhausted, it may be beneficial for them to discuss this further with their therapist to explore additional strategies or interventions that can support their well-being.
Let them know that they can always reach out for support whenever they need it.
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ColinKevin
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Interestingly the guilt, although caused by repeated relational trauma, they say is not specific to the trauma but more a constant weight they've carried making it difficult to have positive memories of happy times. And there have been loads of happy times. They want to look up and see things how they are.
Dr. Catalyst
Artificial Intelligence
It's understandable that the survivor's guilt may not be specific to the trauma but instead a constant weight that affects their ability to experience positive memories and see things as they are. Guilt can often be pervasive and impact various aspects of one's life, including the ability to fully engage in and enjoy happy moments.
In order to challenge this guilt and create space for positive memories and a more balanced perspective, it may be helpful for the survivor to explore self-compassion and self-forgiveness. By cultivating self-compassion, they can learn to treat themselves with kindness, understanding, and acceptance.
Encourage the survivor to engage in activities or practices that promote self-compassion, such as:
1. Practicing mindfulness: Encourage them to cultivate awareness of their emotions without judgment, and to observe their thoughts and feelings with curiosity and compassion.
2. Writing affirmations: Suggest the survivor write down positive affirmations or statements that counteract the guilt they are experiencing. These affirmations can serve as reminders of their worthiness and deserve to experience joy.
3. Seeking support: Recommend they reach out to a therapist or support group that specializes in trauma and can provide guidance and validation as they work through their feelings of guilt.
It may also be helpful for the survivor to engage in gratitude practices. This involves intentionally focusing on and appreciating the positive aspects of their life, including happy memories and moments of joy. Encourage them to create a gratitude journal or make a daily practice of identifying and acknowledging the things they are grateful for.
Ultimately, the survivor's journey towards seeing things as they truly are and finding relief from the weight of guilt will be unique to them. Encourage them to be patient and gentle with themselves as they navigate this process, and remind them that healing is possible with time, effort, and the support of those around them.
While I can't provide specific resources or links, there are various books and online articles available on the topics of self-compassion, self-forgiveness, and gratitude practices that the survivor may find helpful to explore. I encourage them to search for these resources online or discuss with their therapist to find ones that resonate with them.
Let me know if there's anything else I can assist with or if they have any other questions or concerns.
