To all members, so you are aware and hopefully no confusion to recent posts made, username: adaruth is actually Marilyn S. who deceptively used another name, email, all details to get an account here. She sent me a PM outlining this information, and whilst deceptive in itself which she recognises, from what was said to me I have unbanned Marilyn S. and merged her recent posts as adaruth into her original username. Whilst I am not happy about the actions, I am happy about her words to me in private for me to take her out off being banned. The simple reason is, is that Marilyn has demonstrated to me that she wants to heal and cut the crap surrounding it. That is what this forum is about. Nevertheless, due to the breach in privacy to begin with, I will not be providing private access details any time soon to her due to the original incident. This is purely to allow all members to know what has occurred and why upfront.