Never_falter2
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My vet is triggered by germs + by this pandemic actually.
One of our sons is school aged. The other kids are younger. We have compulsory on site schooling in our country. He likes school and I never had a problem with this until the corona pandemic came.
We hoped that because of the corona pandemic home schooling would be allowed in our federal state. One federal state allowed it. It has now turned out that this is not the case.
My vet is higher risk for COVID-19 and his company has send him into home office. We hoped that they might allow children of high-risk parents to stay at home. It turned out that this is not the case in our federal states but high risk parents are asked to isolate from their children. Technically my vet could do that because we have two buildings but of course he isn’t.
Before the school holidays we already had outbreaks at schools.
Now we might be at the beginning of a second wave. Our CDC tells us so and tells us to be very careful, socially distance and so on. They tell us that nobody is safe from corona and that they young ones aren’t.
At the same time we will be forced to send our son to school without any possibility to socially distance. Our CDC recommended socially distancing in schools but have no say on it. Just this week they said that the risk of a corona outbreak in not socially distanced schools was high. A number of scientist have said the same, while other say it will be safe.
There seems to be no consensus but I think most scientist say our schools aren’t safe.
We live in an area where the coronavirus activity currently is above average.
Our son flourished in school. He doesn’t really need it for it intellectual development. Academically he is ahead of his class and we had no trouble homeschooling. However he is a boy who likes to be around other boys.
He is still seeing other kids (outside and only from families who are careful about the coronavirus) and of course he has sibling. I also plan to enroll his younger siblings in daycare again as soon as it feels safe (daycare isn’t compulsory where we live)... but right now it doesn’t feel safe. We have more cases of coronavirus then we had when the schools where closed.
Both me and my vet are very heartbroken about this decision and don’t know what to do. Move to the federal state that allows homeschooling? But we have a house here + my vets job is here. He currently works from home but might have to be in office some day... that also makes moving to another state difficult.
My vet is very stressed + me too. How to cope with him being stressed and having to help him cope with that while at the same time also being very stressed?
One of our sons is school aged. The other kids are younger. We have compulsory on site schooling in our country. He likes school and I never had a problem with this until the corona pandemic came.
We hoped that because of the corona pandemic home schooling would be allowed in our federal state. One federal state allowed it. It has now turned out that this is not the case.
My vet is higher risk for COVID-19 and his company has send him into home office. We hoped that they might allow children of high-risk parents to stay at home. It turned out that this is not the case in our federal states but high risk parents are asked to isolate from their children. Technically my vet could do that because we have two buildings but of course he isn’t.
Before the school holidays we already had outbreaks at schools.
Now we might be at the beginning of a second wave. Our CDC tells us so and tells us to be very careful, socially distance and so on. They tell us that nobody is safe from corona and that they young ones aren’t.
At the same time we will be forced to send our son to school without any possibility to socially distance. Our CDC recommended socially distancing in schools but have no say on it. Just this week they said that the risk of a corona outbreak in not socially distanced schools was high. A number of scientist have said the same, while other say it will be safe.
There seems to be no consensus but I think most scientist say our schools aren’t safe.
We live in an area where the coronavirus activity currently is above average.
Our son flourished in school. He doesn’t really need it for it intellectual development. Academically he is ahead of his class and we had no trouble homeschooling. However he is a boy who likes to be around other boys.
He is still seeing other kids (outside and only from families who are careful about the coronavirus) and of course he has sibling. I also plan to enroll his younger siblings in daycare again as soon as it feels safe (daycare isn’t compulsory where we live)... but right now it doesn’t feel safe. We have more cases of coronavirus then we had when the schools where closed.
Both me and my vet are very heartbroken about this decision and don’t know what to do. Move to the federal state that allows homeschooling? But we have a house here + my vets job is here. He currently works from home but might have to be in office some day... that also makes moving to another state difficult.
My vet is very stressed + me too. How to cope with him being stressed and having to help him cope with that while at the same time also being very stressed?