Just as it says. Thanks
Thanks so much. Very helpful, I shall answer as best I can.need to know whether I am conflicted at all about it. Does part of me want to do it and another part not? If so, I would go to a trusted friend to try to work out the conflict.
There is no clear choice that is in my best interests. If there was, I would not hesitate in choosing it. There are unknowns, very difficult limitations, and little to no prospect of support.Is there an answer that is in my best interests and I still can't make the decision? I have to ask myself why I would hesitate in choosing the thing that is best for me and work through that. Again it can be with someone trusted.
Anxiety is defo a problem. Freezing too.Is anxiety getting to me and I am overthinking - trying to figure out every possible scenario - causing a freeze?
Gut has been saying go a certain way for some years. That was before everyone I know dropped me, before I found out I am autistic with adhd with a demand avoidant profile and have likely been in autistic burnout for decades. all which have deeply shaken my belief in my ability to make a new life.Use my gut feelings - which were missing for a very long time and I am just getting back in touch with them.
Understand. The alternative is terrifying to me.Is one or the other breaching who I want to be as a person? Don't choose that one.