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When I was 3- Does this sound traumatizing?
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<blockquote data-quote="JGirl" data-source="post: 1764409" data-attributes="member: 51215"><p>This is a really good question. I have never thought about it. I often see her as mean and manipulative. But I actually think that she is very caring and genuinely wants to help others. She experienced traumas too. And my parents were awful to her. They didn't understand her behaviour and could not handle it which led to harsh punishments that my other sister and I were spared from. We can barley talk most of the time because we trigger each other.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I think about that too. I spend a lot of time hating her when I am triggered. I do feel bad for her and try to be supportive when I can. But I know that my parents should have never put that much on her. She had to watch me all the time.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I am glad that talking with me helps you too. I have been trying to be supportive for others, but I feel like I am a bit of a hot mess right now.</p><p>I actually love my T. Her practice has done so much for my kids. I got rid of my daily anxiety at work so I could actually focus on my job because of her. I also, for the first time in my life had a time that I actually felt like I wasn't completely broken because of her. That didn't happen until after we started addressing more childhood issues, so I do think she is onto something. I could be in denial, or she could be making some errors, as all humans do. I am sorting things out. Also, It put a huge smile on my fave when you called me </p><p></p><p></p><p>This made me smile!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JGirl, post: 1764409, member: 51215"] This is a really good question. I have never thought about it. I often see her as mean and manipulative. But I actually think that she is very caring and genuinely wants to help others. She experienced traumas too. And my parents were awful to her. They didn't understand her behaviour and could not handle it which led to harsh punishments that my other sister and I were spared from. We can barley talk most of the time because we trigger each other. I think about that too. I spend a lot of time hating her when I am triggered. I do feel bad for her and try to be supportive when I can. But I know that my parents should have never put that much on her. She had to watch me all the time. I am glad that talking with me helps you too. I have been trying to be supportive for others, but I feel like I am a bit of a hot mess right now. I actually love my T. Her practice has done so much for my kids. I got rid of my daily anxiety at work so I could actually focus on my job because of her. I also, for the first time in my life had a time that I actually felt like I wasn't completely broken because of her. That didn't happen until after we started addressing more childhood issues, so I do think she is onto something. I could be in denial, or she could be making some errors, as all humans do. I am sorting things out. Also, It put a huge smile on my fave when you called me This made me smile! [/QUOTE]
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