I want to leave my husband, but I’m terrified. I am so scatterbrained that I don’t even know where to start after I tell him. T says I should start with a conversation with him, but what if he threatens suicide again? How can I find a place to live when my finances are a wreck? 15 years ago, I’d have it worked out but my mind and mental health have deteriorated to the point I can’t plan anything anymore. Suggestions?