Happyplace76
Confident
@SameBoat - I agree about the texting - while I did it, it's true - the abuse continues - it really did prolong the pain of getting over my first abuser. By many many months. And even if it wasn't direct abuse, he'd make me feel obligated to respond - quickly, etc... just like during the relationship. With the 2nd, nothing other than to let him know I wasn't returning for the rest of my stuff and that he or anyone he was associated with was to never contact me again. - The second was in the category of I'm just glad we didn't end up hurt or killed like this last girlfriend.