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<blockquote data-quote="Movingforward10" data-source="post: 1693961" data-attributes="member: 49737"><p>Just because she is sick and dying doesn't mean she automatically can demand or expect your sympathy. It doesn't take away the hurt and it doesn't take away what she did to you.</p><p>You are a compassionate person and you are now feeling pressure perhaps to express the usual feelings when someone is dying? But this isn't a 'usual' situation.</p><p>Do what works for YOU.</p><p>Forget any sense of obligation or any pressure from anyone or any 'shoulds'.</p><p>YOU get to decide how you feel. YOU get to decide if you want to go to the funeral or not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Movingforward10, post: 1693961, member: 49737"] Just because she is sick and dying doesn't mean she automatically can demand or expect your sympathy. It doesn't take away the hurt and it doesn't take away what she did to you. You are a compassionate person and you are now feeling pressure perhaps to express the usual feelings when someone is dying? But this isn't a 'usual' situation. Do what works for YOU. Forget any sense of obligation or any pressure from anyone or any 'shoulds'. YOU get to decide how you feel. YOU get to decide if you want to go to the funeral or not. [/QUOTE]
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