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Welcome Emily, You have found a caring and safe place to be here. I am fairly new and I hope that you will find here as great a support and source of genuine caring advise as I have .

Thank you much for your kindness and support littlelostchild. It is hard to lay your soul bare but I feel that as you say it will help us both work through this. I have to say how you and your husband are working as a team is amazing. You are both a real inspiration to me. Many Thanks Craig

Welcome Wofkitty, I am new here also and still finding my way round. There are some really helpful articles and the other members here are a warm.sincere and caring community. I hope that you find this forum as much of a help and a safe haven as I do. Take Care Craig

Hi, Very brave Suzanne, you have done the right thing. You should be really proud of you, Take Care Craig

Thank you all so much for your support and kind words, they are a massive help to me right now. I have opened the door to my wife but as yet this is safe port where I can be totally open amongst friends who will support and offer advise but don't condem or judge me. As you said JD9900 it is...

Hi All, I havn't posted here in the last couple of weeks. But I do visit every day and read comments on my last thread from other members and they still help me feel I am not on my own and I am still so very grateful for all the kindness shown to me. I have been reading the articles section...

Hi All, I can't think of many, if any places I have been where I have been offered such genuine kindness and caring. Unfortunately the individuals who inflict suffering on others don't care and are indifferent to the consequences of their actions,they don't know how to care. That is their...

Hi All, Thank you all very much for the kind words and thoughts. I did know who I was, at the moment I don't know who or what I am and as you say it is scary and confusing. I am very motivated, as I not only want but have to feel better for my family and I do hope as you say that my wife will...

Thank you, What makes it worse is that it is a small local pub . I aren't a drinker maybe 3 drinks is enough. I didn't go more than 2- 3 times a year, I am a proper family man. I have to walk past it every day as it is near my children's schools. So no escape from it . It was New Year's Eve...

Hi all, I am new here and not really sure if I am posting in the correct area, if I aren't I apologise. I am 49 years old, live in the UK and I have a wife and young children. Up until recently my family and myself thought I was almost bullet proof, in fact my family still think I am. I was...

Thanks macca, that is exactly it. I have home from been measured, and very stable to been completely mixed up messed up,angry confused really low feeling very isolated. So many feelings and things buzzing around that you don't know where to start. I have had one meet with a therapist and she...

Thank you all very much for the replies. I absolutely agree that the energy used in trying to keep this all under wraps would be better focused on working towards self healing ,but as a dad it is a very hard habit to break. As to what my feelings are , to be honest how ,why and what I feel is...

Hi, this is all very new to me. I was attacked by 5 people 1 year ago, I haven't been myself for sometime and have been referred for CBT. I am normally the leaning post for my wife and others. Feeling confused and little isolated as I don't want how I feel to affect my family.