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Are there any behaviors I should be looking for or be worried about? He is not one to really open up and talk about things that are bothering, but I can also tell he is not extremely depressed. I know his drinking can sometimes be excessive but he does not get aggressive towards me or himself...

I did try to bring it up the next time and ofcourse he did not want to talk about it, which is what I expected to happen. I then just told him I am here for him if he wants to talk and just to know that I support him. I know he has friends who understand what he has gone through and I hope he...

Thank you for the reassurance.... I never know what to say either because I have never been in the situation and in no way can say I understand what he went through or how he is feeling.

I have a close friend in the military who only brings up issues he is having when he has been drinking a lot. Sometimes to the point that he would be in tears while talking to me. As someone who is not in the military I cannot fully grasp the things he is saying to me or relate to him during...