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    Sufferer I get triggered by my spouse

    Thank you for sharing your story; it helps me to simply know I am not alone, even in the midst of pain. And I'm glad to hear that your 'ex' is now coming around and seeking ways to deal with the trauma. I hope that whatever comes in the future, in the very least you will get closure and peace.
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    Sufferer I get triggered by my spouse

    Thank you for the warm welcome 😄 And thank you for this comment. It really hits home. I will explain to my spouse once they're home that they should not feel guilty about my triggers, but instead acknowledge with me that it's frustrating. Hopefully that'll prevent them from taking it personally...
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    Sufferer I get triggered by my spouse

    Hello @arfie, thank you for sharing you experience. Simply knowing that I am not alone in such experience helps a bunch. Till now I've been rather stubborn and I tried to convince my brain that this trigger is stupid and that there's nothing dangerous about my spouse, instead of taking my...
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    Sufferer I get triggered by my spouse

    Hi, I found this place after a bad trigger and feeling the need to learn more about what's up and how to move onward. I have among other things PTSD (could be CPTSD; not sure) as a result of domestic abuse. Normally I flinch whenever there's a loud noise or unexpected touch, especially coming...
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