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Remember, she might be PTSD, but it seems like there is something else going on. It sounds a little like bipolar/borderline, which commonly also have PTSD. They can become abusive. It's their illness. But that's no excuse. Whatever it is, both of you should be calm when you speak. PTSD folks can...