Recent content by bewildered

@EveHarrington Thank you. Perhaps it "passing" was wrong wording; I guess I just want to know if this phase of panic will pass. I want to give her space and support her; I just also need to deal with some of the aspects of the situation that have put me into a very hurt and difficult spot...

As I mentioned elsewhere, my wife has recently broken down. She seems like a different person all of a sudden. We always knew there were some latent issues, but I never expected it to come out so drastically. My question for you all is about latent PTSD. Her process getting up to Canada was...

@Sweetpea76 Thank you for your bluntness. That is what I need to hear right now. One of my concerns is that the PTSD is used as an excuse for various choices she is making, or for mistreating me. It is very hard for me to tell what she is doing that is PTSD and what of it is her actual...

@Michael Houston Thank you. I am trying to remember unconditional love and space. Sadly much of this all has me very triggered and confused as well. I am currently even just trying to establish with her that she even want to work through this with me. @Mytime Thank you for your advice. I do...

Hi everyone, I am new here, and will give a little bit of my story. I need people to talk to about all of this that I am going through, and who can help me to better understand what is going on and what I can do. Please excuse the long rant. I got married to my wife 3 years ago and we were...