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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    Thank you @Freida I’m trying to learn as much as I can. I hate standing by and not being able to be actively participating in his healing. So I’m going to educate myself
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    Wow thank you for letting me know. You are a wealth of information. I wish u all the best as well. Take care❤️
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    @Mytime You are my saviour right now! I have been scouring the internet to find something that talks about a sufferer detaching from his spouse. Your story sounds like what I have been living so far. My husband doesn’t have angry outbursts but has gone from being one of the most patient people...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    BTW: it will be three weeks on Thursday that he left. And I’m already wondering when it will end but maybe that is bcuz of the back and forth with him too.
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    What would I say; call me when u are better? sounds stupid but really. I did ask him once if it would be easier just to cut ties for a while to see if he misses us. He said no he couldn’t do that. It would crush him. But I wasn’t clear...I maybe should have said just me and not the kids.
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    If I remember correctly @Deanna you are a sufferer right? So does this shit sound familiar to anything u went through?
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    Okay. Fair-I do know that sleeping together probably isn’t good for either of us. It just felt so nice to be wanted again. we agreed when he left it was to work on himself and not a “separation”. He said he doesn’t want to be separated. Are u saying maybe I should suggest that would be better...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    These days I get through the day by mostly wishing time away so I can ask him about progress. That is no way to live-wishing time away!!! But I don’t know what to do. At least of time goes by there has to be some progress or no progress. But then I can start seeing how this will play out and...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    Thank you Deanna. Post doesn’t need to be long to be effective....do u think he moved out and now he sees it as easier to get away with the drinking and not having to be accountable? But how can he see his children’s faces and do this to them even? Hmm I guess I can answer that. The same way he...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    @Mytime @Friday @Freida @enough @Survivor3 Yes I am seeing a therapist and working out-I’m probably the healthiest I have ever been-physically and mentally. And I’m trying so hard to be positive and see this as an opportunity for growth for each of us individually. But I’m so scared of losing...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    @enough @Survivor3 @Friday Hello My husband decided to move out a week ago. Feels like it has been an eternity. I’m a complete disaster and feel very alone and sad and don’t know what the future looks like. Those of you that have suffered-please can u provide me some insight. My husband says...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    @Friday Thank you so much-I will definitely look into these links you sent. I value your input on the SGB treatments bcuz we would be coming from Canada so would be a HUGE expense. There is no price for his health BUT if it is a sketchy treatment at best then I’m glad to know before I book...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    Hello Does anyone here have any experience with the Stellate Ganglion Block treatment? Thanks
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    @Friday Wow-that is very powerful and a view I never thought of. Thank you for presenting the other side to me. I needed it. I think you put it best when you said “finding the way to make it suck the least and then embracing the suck.” So here we are today embracing the man that is our entire...
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    Relationship Broken Heart: UPDATE, Alone and wondering if he will come back

    @blackemerald1 Thank you. He is moving out tomorrow; we told the kids and I’m exhausted. We were honest with them and we are better for it. will update later
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