Recent content by Cdnmofo

Link Removed I understand what you are saying. We do our best to take heated discussions away from J. For example, when my oldest son has had a bad day at work and needs to vent when he gets home, he will send me a text. J will go in the garage or elsewhere so that I can talk to my son. If he...

@Link Removed We are going to do what we can as fast as we can. I think we need it as a family and J needs to go back to therapy on a more scheduled time again. Thanks

@Snowwhite This was also a threat said very early today. He says thus but he would leave and make the chice fur me. I don't think he'd actually expect me to choose. These are things I'm learning. With TBI as well he has a hard time filtering his thoughts before spoken After talking today...

T To understand J's PTSD and TBI and work together not to trigger them. And understand what he means to me and my happiness @Justmehere J did not say "he leaves or me" in front of my son but directly to me. He has threatened to leave several times over such triggers. He later talks it out...

Hi tree hugger I have another post going regarding my youngest son being a trigger for my fiancé

Thank you. I believe all if what you say. This is very helpful. He is threatening to leave me as he can no longer live with my son as he is too much of a trigger

@Justmehere He sees a therapist once a month. She feels he us ready to be on his own. He knows most times his to avoid things so as not to lose his temper. The therapist seemingly discouraged hugs need for flight. I didn't try to stop him this time. @Ayesha Sorry. In his anger last night...

@Springer80 Thank you for your response ;) My first sentence states he was diagnosed almost 8 yrs ago ;) He is well versed in his triggers and the control. PTSD coupled with TBI is even more difficult as they mirror many of the same effects. I do somewhat understand the decompression but I...

My fiancée was diagnosed with TBI and PTSD almost 8 years ago. We have been living together for the past year. He was attacked and almost killed by 3 British soldiers while on duty. Therefore he is hyper vigilant and has many triggers. The biggest being tones of voice and acts of...

Hi all I just found your site today. I hope it may help me deal with the day to day with my fiancée who has PTSD and TBI for the last 7 years. We have known each other for 3 years and living together for the past year. Hoping other supporters have some advice. Sincerely Cdnmofo