Recent content by Deo Juvante

"Treat others as you would want to be treated" has always been my creed, but it seems im the only one. Which brings me to "how exactly is the spouse/supporter supposed to treat their spouse/sufferer?". I suffer from combat related PTSD, but think I manage it fairly well (all things considered)...

Thanks, i will check it out.

I believe it is important for others around us to understand our conditions for acceptance. Not just for them to accept us, but for us to accept us. We are our own worst critics, capable of self destruction on a massive scale, but if those around us understand and accept us (flaws and all) then...

Night time security guard- work alone, driving around town (empty streets so no road rage) checking doors and locks with the occasional opportunity to get physical legally if necessary. Auto detailing- work alone, attention to detail occupies mind well.

@arfie- I understand and completely agree with having realistic expectations for a couple that's planning for long term. In fact, its absolutely essential, but they hadn't even confirmed with one another (other than body language) that something's there. I may be wrong, but for me that seems to...

That is a pretty interesting read. I've heard of the damsel in distress falling for her rescuer plot before. One thing i seem to be missing is how it would be inappropriate for you and the officer to become friends. Unless he was in a relationship and trying to creep. Maybe someone can enlighten...

This might sound silly, but imagine your heart is a white light pulsating out of your chest. Picture it in your mind. Now hold your breathe and push like your going to the rest room. As you push, picture the light growing bigger with each pulse until it surrounds your body. You now have force...

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone! Hopefully you alls day went as uneventful (the good kind) as mine.

Hello all, and greetings from beautiful green country! I have learned throughout my life experiences, as I'm sure most (or all) of you reading this can attest to, first impressions are everything when the goal is to get something you need from others i.e. a job, or a fathers acceptance of you...