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Thanks for that. I had wondered about codependency. Although I have struggled to understand codependency as in many ways a healthy relationship has a certain amount of codependency to it. How do you think I might prevent the white knight thing from developing? Do you have any particular...

Hi Berlinda. thank you for taking the time to reply. She has been offered EMDR. However she has so far been very reluctant to accept it. She says she is "counselled out" and needs a break. She has also heard that EMDR involves revisiting the past events and that it can be very distressing. So...

Hi Werrty Thanks for your post. Wow - your wife must be a fighter. Not many people beat pancreatic cancer. I've just posted my introduction online. I joined yesterday, in desperation really. Been married 18 months, seven months in my wife was diagnosed with PTSD. We're barely surviving, and my...

Hi Everyone I'm Darren. I'm 52. Eighteen months ago i married my wife. In our courtship we'd argued a lot, but didn't think much of it. A counsellor I saw said that we argued well, constructively not destructively. The marriage was in difficulty, however, from a few months in. Seven months in...