Recent content by Faith1234

Well my situation has not gotten any better, so I have decided to just give him space. I am due with his child in 2 1/2 mths. and it is now at the point to where he sleeps downstairs does not talk to me, nothing.. Me being pregnant I just cant do this right now.. I am a emotional wreck! I talked...

Thank you all for your responses.. It made me look at things a lot.. Well.. Last night he came up from down stairs at about 1030pm and laid down on the couch to go to sleep. He didn't say anything I walked out of the bedroom he didn't say anything to me while I grabbed a glass of water. So I...

No I have never went down there and just sat next to him, he wears a head set and talks to people, plus if I ask him something he's short and doesn't even turn his head to look at me.. I seriously feel like I could come and go as I please and not say a word and he wouldn't care. I text him "...

Yes Freedomfighter He says he plays video games on his days off cause he wants to relax.. In my mind ok.. I understand that, but why cant you compromise.. But at that point, I feel like I'm begging him if I ask.. I just don't know why I would have to ask for him to just take a little out of the...

Yes he has PTSD.. Hes told me in the past that he was not sure if he wanted to be with me anymore.. and that he is emotionally numb.. But he literally will sit down there and play xbox all day from the time he gets up until the time he goes to bed, laughing and talking to his friends on xbox...

Ok.. So I am having a hard time understanding something... My bf of 7 years plays video games all the time, like take today for example. He has literally been down stairs since 8am this morning and he has come up to refill his cup of coffee a few times, and grab him something for lunch. I...

Hi Snowflakes Thank You for sharing your story!! I'm trying my very best, its getting easier.. The more I learn, talk to you guys and go to my own therapy sessions. I just hope and pray he starts feeling better, and wants this family again. I want to just give him a big hug and kiss and I cant...

Hi LoveMyNavyChief! I'm doing alright.. Just taking one day at a time. He actually talked to me today for like 20 minutes I was very surprised!!! He was talking to me about his therapy appt he had last Friday.. and once he started talking I just sat there and listened and he just kept going...

It was hard to read that message but it does make sense. I have so many things going on in my head right now... He bought a house this past October and then I found out I was pregnant in November. But I have had to do a lot of things to actually move to this location.. My son was going to school...

I see what your saying, although it started 6months ago and it has just gotten worse.. I feel like were growing apart rather than closer together already.. Or is this feeling normal? I don't want to lose him completely... I have kept my 9 yr old and myself as busy as we can to give time a...

Ok so.. my dear bf of 7 yrs just had his first therapy appointment at the VA this past Friday. His didn't say anything to me about it, although I did ask him if it went ok and all he said was... it was alright. He didn't even look at me when he said it either so I took that as he didn't want to...

Never_falter He plays shooter games on Xbox One live with other people, not sure exactly which shooter games.. But I know every time I pass him down stairs he has a head set on talking to people and he's shooting.

Or if I come home on lunch from work and I notice his phone is on the charger on the counter didn't pick it up just saw it there while I was making my lunch.. its either flipped over so the screen is no longer face up or its back in his pocket within 5 mins.. It drives me crazy!! Cause I just...

Ok.. So my dear bf of 7 years is going through a hard time with his ptsd, and he starts therapy for the first time this Friday. But I do have a question... He takes his phone everywhere with him, in his pocket.. It doesn't matter where he goes.. to the bathroom its with him, down stairs to play...

Ok so I'm due with our child in July, his 1st child.. I just wanted to ask.. Do men that have ptsd experience some joy and happiness when seeing your child being born and holding them for the first time? He says he is excited..