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He said he's still in counciling, he also said he doesn't feel good about the way he's handled things and how he's spoken to me and when he gets like that he goes into depression. I feel sorry for what hes going through but i can't be his punch bag anymore

All, thank you so much for your replies. I told him today that i understand he has PTSD and while i can't begin to imagine what that's like to go through and i wanted to help him in whatever way i could but i will no longer be blamed / yelled at or physically threatened. I told him he needs help...

Thank you so much for all your replies. He kept saying i was poking the hornets nest he had me believing it was all my fault so i wanted to try and understand more

Hi, i use to react to his anger with anger but I've been working hard on myself now i just to to him nice and calm, i know he can't help having PTSD thats from all the things he's seen and done in combat i understand that. I've set boundaries with him explaining i won't be spoken to like dirt...

Hi, my ex boyfriend spent 20 years in the Royal Engineers there's a 20 year age gap between us. He's been diagnosed with PTSD and blames me for everything i try and talk to him nice and calm but he just explodes he's threatened me twice with physical violence. I dont know what else to do